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miss_n_cinch13
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teebluesage - 2016-01-29 2:30 PM

Glad to hear someone who barrel races would be interested in a shining spark bred horse. I've got a daughter of twice as shiney ( son of shining spark) who I've bred to my Frenchmans Guy stud. The filly will be a year old this spring. She's a sweetie with people, but I can tell she has ambitions of being a future boss mare with the other horses. She seems like she will be quick to react and sensitive, probably not going to be a dead head. I think she will be fun to ride.

I have 3 horses where shining spark is the granddad on the sire side, love all three of them! Two are full siblings. They are extremely athletic and quick learners. I am keeping my eye out for younger horses that go back to him since we have had great results with these three.
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ND3canAddict - 2016-01-29 2:55 PM

Not saying this is the case with anyone here, but sometimes riders work way too hard to "get around" a fragile minded horse, and they end up worse.  That's why I think a real, blue-collar job is the best bet.  They have to focus on the task at hand.  They have to work through getting tired.  They have to figure out how to deal with their "disability."  If the rider is patient, but firm and helps them focus and gain confidence, the might always defaut to being sensitive, but they have some life-skills built up to function.  Plus, if they've worked for a living, they might find barrel racing to be a pleasant reward- rather than stressful.

I had a mare that was super sensitive, she'd puff up and want to buck if she was overwhelmed.  I'd squeeze half a buttcheek and she'd be finished with her 4th spin before I could unclench.  Luckily, we ranch in some rough badlands country, so I used her for checking water and moving pairs in 17,000 acres.  The first few days weren't fun for either of us, but I loved her, so I kept taking her.  Most of what we did was power walking up and down hills on a loose rein- for hours on end.  After a couple of weeks, and a lot of tight spots, she learned that it was easier to relax and wait for a command than over-react 9000 times a day.  On the off days, we'd work the barrels for a little bit and she'd get pampered.  If she'd get wadded up, we'd get past it by doing "brain engage" drills like half-passing, hip yields, etc- but it was never a big deal.  Once the wad cleared, we'd carry on like nothing happened.  I'm sure no one gives a hoot about this story, but the moral is:  She turned out to be a ton of fun.  Once she quit wigging out, I allowed compromises with her.  I chose my battles, and we understood each other.  In addition to becomming a pretty decent barrel horse, she was also my very favorite ranch horse.  She still had her quirks, but we understood and trusted each other.  

Totally agree. I think for the first 4-5 years our "warm ups" before working in the arena/barrels was miles and miles of checking fences, cows, & the back 40. She is a beast and I love her! I've put her through some looong days and sticky situations and she's never asked to quit!
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thank you for all of the inputs!!

this week we have made some changes just to try! I did have her on tribute and formula 1 as well as free choice mineral and alfalfa hay,

Iv'e kicked her out into the big pen and gonna take her off grain, all these nice days I have been riding her outside through the snow! but I'm gonna spend more time riding her out and start checking the cows on her. and my outdoor arena still of course has some snow, but I'm gonna start riding more out there, make her work a little harder.

she inst scared, she just want to work so hard when she doesn't need too, Ill ask her to walk and her mind gets racing and shes already thinking about loping when i'm asking her too walk. when she gets all sweaty and wore out a bit shes a dream to ride!

I've never asked her to stop on a dime or give me that big roll back, i'm just asking her to break down from a trot to a walk but she wants to give it her all. I know that sounds like a terrible trait to have lol its just frustrating.

I am riding her in a 3 piece snaffle or a chain little gag bit. I know my saddle fits perfect! I spend the money on quality tack to make sure my animals are comfortable.

I was just wondering if a fragile minded horse can turn out to be a successful barrel horse, this summer might be different for her, lots of miles down the road I think will help.

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Posted 2016-01-29 3:44 PM
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ND3canAddict - 2016-01-30 12:55 PM

Not saying this is the case with anyone here, but sometimes riders work way too hard to "get around" a fragile minded horse, and they end up worse.  That's why I think a real, blue-collar job is the best bet.  They have to focus on the task at hand.  They have to work through getting tired.  They have to figure out how to deal with their "disability."  If the rider is patient, but firm and helps them focus and gain confidence, the might always defaut to being sensitive, but they have some life-skills built up to function.  Plus, if they've worked for a living, they might find barrel racing to be a pleasant reward- rather than stressful.

I had a mare that was super sensitive, she'd puff up and want to buck if she was overwhelmed.  I'd squeeze half a buttcheek and she'd be finished with her 4th spin before I could unclench.  Luckily, we ranch in some rough badlands country, so I used her for checking water and moving pairs in 17,000 acres.  The first few days weren't fun for either of us, but I loved her, so I kept taking her.  Most of what we did was power walking up and down hills on a loose rein- for hours on end.  After a couple of weeks, and a lot of tight spots, she learned that it was easier to relax and wait for a command than over-react 9000 times a day.  On the off days, we'd work the barrels for a little bit and she'd get pampered.  If she'd get wadded up, we'd get past it by doing "brain engage" drills like half-passing, hip yields, etc- but it was never a big deal.  Once the wad cleared, we'd carry on like nothing happened.  I'm sure no one gives a hoot about this story, but the moral is:  She turned out to be a ton of fun.  Once she quit wigging out, I allowed compromises with her.  I chose my battles, and we understood each other.  In addition to becomming a pretty decent barrel horse, she was also my very favorite ranch horse.  She still had her quirks, but we understood and trusted each other.  

Wish I could go back a ton of years and find fatchance's post called "Keep their feet moving" or something like that. It at least saved my life with CC before the injury where I really figured her out. It was what got us thru her 5-8 year old years. Instead of me trying to stop her feet when she panicked I put her over reactive to use for her instead of against me. That post was a life save for me! RAther than working on "calming " her down we worked on sending her somewhere with a job to do. It was hard to trust at first that we'd survive it but we went from the 3rd buck off with 5 fractured ribs and a fractured knee cap in August to being able to actually go to time only's in February simply by keeping her feet moving when she had a melt down as opposed to pulling her to a stop and my legs clamping down on her. Scariest thing I ever did was hop on her out alone in 1500 plus acres of rocks, brush and cows but she came back a better horse for it that day and I survived which gave me confidence that it was the right approach for the time being.
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run n rate
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Posted 2016-01-29 4:52 PM
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Also, to help with her anxiety you might try Cur-ost Adapt and Calm. I just recently found it, at the time that CC was the most fractious I used Silver Lining herbs Keep Cool on her and it really helped her mind just relax a bit so that she wasn't so over anxious all the time. I remember one day I hopped on her and realized under all the anxiety what a cool little ride she was, the mare even scared could do things with her body that my gelding I cut and showed rein cow horse as well as run barrels cannot do, and she does them with ease. She had somehow managed to absorb the counter arc drills, the two tracking drills, the roll back drills even with her brain on warp speed anxiety stress. You'd get 10 strides of "omg, this is the nicest horse I've ever been on !" Followed by "OMg, is she lame??? where, what foot, why am I seeing her blaze and her nostrils over the tops of her ears???" Once I realized how scared she was about not having the right answer when I asked her I knew I needed to put her on something to take that anxiety away for her . After about 3 months on it , the Keep Cool, she no longer needed it daily and I just gave it to her when I hauled her to a new place or one in the past that had gotten to her. After about 6 months of that she no longer needed that either, we got enough good experiences under her belt that even though she was a high wire act, she at least looked to me for reassurance first instead of having a complete melt down.
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cow pie
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Posted 2016-01-29 5:16 PM
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You have some good advice. I would pull off the grain let her come off her high. Leave the spurs in the barn. Load up and head out on the trails. Do all the things you would do in an arena. Just do it quietly and calmly. In a months time you should have the answer to your question.Should she stay or should she go.Good luck with your decision.
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Posted 2016-01-29 5:39 PM
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To answer your question, yes fragile minded horses can make phenomenal horses. As the saying goes all the good horses have quirks.

Will the horse be a barrel horse this year, no.

Will the horse be a barrel horse next year, maybe, but won't be at full potential for a few.

It sounds like your horse has not confidence, no ego. You need to build her up.

It also sounds like she is broke very light, you need to adapt. This is why I use trainers that ride similar to me.

I have two I would have considered fragile minded, the first it took me months to get rid of the herd bound. Surprisingly her first jackpot she took all the events in like a pro, while riding her at home, she jumps 10 feet sideways if the snow bank looks a little different.
The second, it took me 6 months of riding to get him where he is safe for anyone to ride. We even go into a bad situation with a rank cow, instead of blowing up, he stood his ground and got out of the situation. This one the guy who trained him hated him, everyone who seen the trainer work him couldn't believe he was the same horse. We are just getting to the point of patterning him.

You need to ask yourself, what are you willing to tolerate, if you don't want a horse that over works, find someone who does.

If you want a barrel horse now, send her down the road

If you want all the trials and tribulations that go with training barrel horses, keep her. Some horses are so easy, some make you want to rip your hair out. It is very humbling and so worth it when they are done
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Posted 2016-01-29 7:13 PM
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zansbeunogal_2268 - 2016-01-29 10:42 AM

This could just be my frustration talking, but when do you call it quits and move on, she aint gonna make you a barrel horse??

I bought this Filly last fall, she is cowbred on the top shining spark/Docs Jack Frost and Captial Flight and Streakin La Jolla on the mares side.

I know the full history on this Filly, she was mostly left untouched till i got her, I sent her away to my trainers and then i got her back.

and I have taken her to the vets, I have her on omeprazole just as a precaution and to ensure she does not have ulcers. she is in great shape, shiny slick coat, nice round back and perfect shape! shes on a great feed program.

but here's my problem with her, even since the trainers he couldn't get by her, and I've been riding her steady and I'm just working on getting her quiet and to be able to lope/trot a cirlce without losing her mind!

I have never had a horse this fragile minded, she is by far the most athletic horse I've stepped foot on, she is so quick and catty on her feet, but some days a roll back is too much for her to handle. I am a quiet rider, too quiet most times, she has never been beaten or pushed too hard by anyone in her life, but for some reason her mind is just wanting to be 50 steps ahead of me.

she is 5 this year and nominated up, but I know that dream is out the window, she would be fried if I pushed her! we have a nice little amateur rodeo association up here and Ideally that would be my goal with her, but when she crawls out of her skin when I brush her with my spur I don't know if its gonna happen

In the last months my big accomplishments with her are being able to lope a cirlce with her picking up the correct lead and having her nice and relaxed. she is dramatic, if I ask her to stop shes making 11's even if i ask her at a walk, if i ask her to move her shoulders she drops and spins to far, Im just asking for a step or too. I know these arnt bad traits to have, but her mind is just so fragile.

is it worth it to me to keep taking her slow and hoping one day shes gonna be able to handle being pushed, going to rodeos? or should I be thinking about letting her go. I know this post doesn't sound like shes hard to get by, but I cant explain it better.

has anyone gotten by a fragile minded horse? or are they always stuck in their way?

Ive had a few like this. You really have to pick your battles. My last one was bad.. starting her basics was a fight so I just put her on the pattern. She excelled at that and I didnt nit pik basics as long as she was working. That was our agreement. It took 2 yrs to slowly slowly put her basics on all the while she was running and doing well. Basics were easier when there were no time expectations, she thought they were her idea and not so imposing. In the end her basics were just as good as one that had basics first. Backwards but it worked for her and she made a super nice horsd without all the frustration. She never did lope a circle well but she ran 1D. :)
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You could also try MagRestore and Focus blend. MagRestore is magnesium. Tried it on a mare I had ... she was fractious minded and it helped her quite a bit. It didn't completely change her attitude. She was still goofy and nervous but paid attention more and worked well in the pen.
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Some of my top horses Ive worked with were fragile minded.. confidence is a key, also less is more (lose the spurs and anything else ) keep light (dont overthink) they ten to be able to read your mind before you even ask.. so make sure your body isnt asking before you want.. also its a good thing to keep their MIND busy on a job.. structure is huge with these types to. perfectionists is what i call them.. my stud would feel like he was crawling out of his skin ready to explode when I got him.. few months of structure and mind work he turned that energy into desire to work and stayed with me. I slowed my mind down to relaxation helps.They love a job and not just wtc in circles and stuff .. it has to be mental work..and lots of praise..

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Posted 2016-01-30 6:07 AM
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the good things about over achievers when they get they give 110 percent. maybe for a couple weeks give a little ace just to prove the point of relation just a small amount and go working outside.
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Maybe try treating for hind gut ulcers not just stomach ulcers. More expensive to treat but often they are more sensitive when they have hind gut ulcers..and omeprazole won't fix them.
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as long as one is not explosive and dangerous then i get along fine with the sensitive ones. they just need to have their confidence babied along. Those types are not for everyone and if you find that they irritate you then cut your losses and let someone that likes the challege move on with the horse.
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Send her somewhere she can get ranched on Or a feed lot on she'll quiet down.
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cow pie - 2016-01-29 3:16 PM You have some good advice. I would pull off the grain let her come off her high. Leave the spurs in the barn. Load up and head out on the trails. Do all the things you would do in an arena. Just do it quietly and calmly. In a months time you should have the answer to your question.Should she stay or should she go.Good luck with your decision.

 This.

Also, it seems like she doesn't trust you...or know you....or maybe needs a constant leader she can look to for her insecurities. I'd try some round penning like Clinton Anderson style and see how she responds to you. 
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I had one like this, she mentally wasn't ready and I didn't want to push her, I traded her for an older mare that was more mentally stable for barrel racing. She went to a ranch to be a woods/ranch horse, the lady that has her is a big barrel racing trainer down here and even she said a few good years in the woods will do her good, then maybe she will make a barrel horse.
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Cut your losses move on get something different. The second you add pressure you will be fighting an uphill battle.
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ND3canAddict - 2016-01-29 2:55 PM Not saying this is the case with anyone here, but sometimes riders work way too hard to "get around" a fragile minded horse, and they end up worse.  That's why I think a real, blue-collar job is the best bet.  They have to focus on the task at hand.  They have to work through getting tired.  They have to figure out how to deal with their "disability."  If the rider is patient, but firm and helps them focus and gain confidence, the might always defaut to being sensitive, but they have some life-skills built up to function.  Plus, if they've worked for a living, they might find barrel racing to be a pleasant reward- rather than stressful.



I had a mare that was super sensitive, she'd puff up and want to buck if she was overwhelmed.  I'd squeeze half a buttcheek and she'd be finished with her 4th spin before I could unclench.  Luckily, we ranch in some rough badlands country, so I used her for checking water and moving pairs in 17,000 acres.  The first few days weren't fun for either of us, but I loved her, so I kept taking her.  Most of what we did was power walking up and down hills on a loose rein- for hours on end.  After a couple of weeks, and a lot of tight spots, she learned that it was easier to relax and wait for a command than over-react 9000 times a day.  On the off days, we'd work the barrels for a little bit and she'd get pampered.  If she'd get wadded up, we'd get past it by doing "brain engage" drills like half-passing, hip yields, etc- but it was never a big deal.  Once the wad cleared, we'd carry on like nothing happened.  I'm sure no one gives a hoot about this story, but the moral is:  She turned out to be a ton of fun.  Once she quit wigging out, I allowed compromises with her.  I chose my battles, and we understood each other.  In addition to becomming a pretty decent barrel horse, she was also my very favorite ranch horse.  She still had her quirks, but we understood and trusted each other.  

I liked your story  
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Dinero10 - 2016-02-01 7:36 AM
ND3canAddict - 2016-01-29 2:55 PM Not saying this is the case with anyone here, but sometimes riders work way too hard to "get around" a fragile minded horse, and they end up worse.  That's why I think a real, blue-collar job is the best bet.  They have to focus on the task at hand.  They have to work through getting tired.  They have to figure out how to deal with their "disability."  If the rider is patient, but firm and helps them focus and gain confidence, the might always defaut to being sensitive, but they have some life-skills built up to function.  Plus, if they've worked for a living, they might find barrel racing to be a pleasant reward- rather than stressful.



I had a mare that was super sensitive, she'd puff up and want to buck if she was overwhelmed.  I'd squeeze half a buttcheek and she'd be finished with her 4th spin before I could unclench.  Luckily, we ranch in some rough badlands country, so I used her for checking water and moving pairs in 17,000 acres.  The first few days weren't fun for either of us, but I loved her, so I kept taking her.  Most of what we did was power walking up and down hills on a loose rein- for hours on end.  After a couple of weeks, and a lot of tight spots, she learned that it was easier to relax and wait for a command than over-react 9000 times a day.  On the off days, we'd work the barrels for a little bit and she'd get pampered.  If she'd get wadded up, we'd get past it by doing "brain engage" drills like half-passing, hip yields, etc- but it was never a big deal.  Once the wad cleared, we'd carry on like nothing happened.  I'm sure no one gives a hoot about this story, but the moral is:  She turned out to be a ton of fun.  Once she quit wigging out, I allowed compromises with her.  I chose my battles, and we understood each other.  In addition to becomming a pretty decent barrel horse, she was also my very favorite ranch horse.  She still had her quirks, but we understood and trusted each other.  
I liked your story  

LOL, thanks!  It was a ton of work, but paid off.  If I wouldn't have liked her so well, i would have unloaded her right away.  Life is too short for it not to be fun! 
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ND3canAddict - 2016-01-29 2:55 PM Not saying this is the case with anyone here, but sometimes riders work way too hard to "get around" a fragile minded horse, and they end up worse.  That's why I think a real, blue-collar job is the best bet.  They have to focus on the task at hand.  They have to work through getting tired.  They have to figure out how to deal with their "disability."  If the rider is patient, but firm and helps them focus and gain confidence, the might always defaut to being sensitive, but they have some life-skills built up to function.  Plus, if they've worked for a living, they might find barrel racing to be a pleasant reward- rather than stressful.



I had a mare that was super sensitive, she'd puff up and want to buck if she was overwhelmed.  I'd squeeze half a buttcheek and she'd be finished with her 4th spin before I could unclench.  Luckily, we ranch in some rough badlands country, so I used her for checking water and moving pairs in 17,000 acres.  The first few days weren't fun for either of us, but I loved her, so I kept taking her.  Most of what we did was power walking up and down hills on a loose rein- for hours on end.  After a couple of weeks, and a lot of tight spots, she learned that it was easier to relax and wait for a command than over-react 9000 times a day.  On the off days, we'd work the barrels for a little bit and she'd get pampered.  If she'd get wadded up, we'd get past it by doing "brain engage" drills like half-passing, hip yields, etc- but it was never a big deal.  Once the wad cleared, we'd carry on like nothing happened.  I'm sure no one gives a hoot about this story, but the moral is:  She turned out to be a ton of fun.  Once she quit wigging out, I allowed compromises with her.  I chose my battles, and we understood each other.  In addition to becomming a pretty decent barrel horse, she was also my very favorite ranch horse.  She still had her quirks, but we understood and trusted each other.  

I'm so glad to read your posts again! You are so knowledgeable and full of insight! Glad you came back   Your little mare was a rockstar! You did a super job bringing her along to her full potential. I wish I were half the horsewoman!
I would consider mine <----- somewhat fragile-minded.  Although we never made it in the barrel pen (unrelated issues), she has turned into the very best kids horse b/c of it! She is sensitive and kind, and smart enough in her older years to know that she doesn't have to work hard with my daughter on her.
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