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| seriously? screw that. girl you might not see it today but he did you a favor.
take some time for yourself and forget him. period. |
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  Whack and Roll
Posts: 6342
 
Location: NE Texas | LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
Mama needs a man with that feels and looks like a MAN! LOL
I'm in with Lulu and the others....You have to respect yourself before anyone else will respect you and you have to have a clear definition of what your expectations for a relationship are. When lines are crossed, we have to hold the line crosser accoutable. We teach people how to treat us and you are teaching them to treat you like crap. Stand tall, be proud of who you are!!!! Sounds like you have already overcome so much....be proud of that and use that as a tool and learning experience. Love yourself first and foremost and if a potential mate isn't matching up to the man you know you deserve....MOVE ON.....you were looking when you found him! LOL In all seriousness, you have to have expectations of what you want and when you don't get that, cut ties. Time to take control of your life and be proud to be a strong woman, a mother, and to know that a good man will be HONORED to be with you, not burdened. Food for thought...... |
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| Herbie - 2014-11-20 3:38 PM
LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
I'm in with Lulu and the others....You have to respect yourself before anyone else will respect you and you have to have a clear definition of what your expectations for a relationship are. When lines are crossed, we have to hold the line crosser accoutable. We teach people how to treat us and you are teaching them to treat you like crap. Stand tall, be proud of who you are!!!! Sounds like you have already overcome so much....be proud of that and use that as a tool and learning experience. Love yourself first and foremost and if a potential mate isn't matching up to the man you know you deserve....MOVE ON.....you were looking when you found him! LOL In all seriousness, you have to have expectations of what you want and when you don't get that, cut ties. Time to take control of your life and be proud to be a strong woman, a mother, and to know that a good man will be HONORED to be with you, not burdened. Food for thought......
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Location: Oklahoma | Herbie - 2014-11-20 3:38 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
I'm in with Lulu and the others....You have to respect yourself before anyone else will respect you and you have to have a clear definition of what your expectations for a relationship are. When lines are crossed, we have to hold the line crosser accoutable. We teach people how to treat us and you are teaching them to treat you like crap. Stand tall, be proud of who you are!!!! Sounds like you have already overcome so much....be proud of that and use that as a tool and learning experience. Love yourself first and foremost and if a potential mate isn't matching up to the man you know you deserve....MOVE ON.....you were looking when you found him! LOL In all seriousness, you have to have expectations of what you want and when you don't get that, cut ties. Time to take control of your life and be proud to be a strong woman, a mother, and to know that a good man will be HONORED to be with you, not burdened. Food for thought......
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 Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
Posts: 16390
Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:41 PM
Herbie - 2014-11-20 3:38 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
I'm in with Lulu and the others....You have to respect yourself before anyone else will respect you and you have to have a clear definition of what your expectations for a relationship are. When lines are crossed, we have to hold the line crosser accoutable. We teach people how to treat us and you are teaching them to treat you like crap. Stand tall, be proud of who you are!!!! Sounds like you have already overcome so much....be proud of that and use that as a tool and learning experience. Love yourself first and foremost and if a potential mate isn't matching up to the man you know you deserve....MOVE ON.....you were looking when you found him! LOL In all seriousness, you have to have expectations of what you want and when you don't get that, cut ties. Time to take control of your life and be proud to be a strong woman, a mother, and to know that a good man will be HONORED to be with you, not burdened. Food for thought......
Told y'all. She can talk a dead person out of their grave. |
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Whack and Roll
Posts: 6342
Location: NE Texas | Hey, i've kissed a few frogs in my day too! I didn't come by this knowledge without making a few mistakes along the way!  |
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Posts: 9992
Location: Kansas | Herbie - 2014-11-20 3:38 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
I'm in with Lulu and the others....You have to respect yourself before anyone else will respect you and you have to have a clear definition of what your expectations for a relationship are. When lines are crossed, we have to hold the line crosser accoutable. We teach people how to treat us and you are teaching them to treat you like crap. Stand tall, be proud of who you are!!!! Sounds like you have already overcome so much....be proud of that and use that as a tool and learning experience. Love yourself first and foremost and if a potential mate isn't matching up to the man you know you deserve....MOVE ON.....you were looking when you found him! LOL In all seriousness, you have to have expectations of what you want and when you don't get that, cut ties. Time to take control of your life and be proud to be a strong woman, a mother, and to know that a good man will be HONORED to be with you, not burdened. Food for thought......
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Whack and Roll
Posts: 6342
Location: NE Texas | You're very welcome....time to pull yourself together and make the choice for yourself that YOU are going to be just fine and this is for the best. I mean literally choose it. When you start feeling sad, tell yourself OUTLOUD if you have to....nope, not going to do this to myself and smile. Smiling is really quiet powerful believe it or not. I've even had to just lough out loud when i'm feeling blue and sorry for myself. Makes a big difference....almost like i'm laughing at myself. It's important to be able to laugh at ourselves when we're being silly. |
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Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
Posts: 16390
Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | At first I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But then I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along
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Posts: 1888
Location: LaBelle, Florida | As the others have stated, be thankful he did this now.
If he is so insecure as to go off like this over a conversation in FRONT of him, then leave you stranded in another town.
Pull yourself up by your bootstraps and do what you gotta do to move on.
God is just making room for a REAL man to come into your life.
It may not be tomorrow or the next day, but down the road.
Block his number, do not say a word other than you have split up, change the locks on your house, cut ALL contact with this low life.
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| LRQHS - 2014-11-20 4:06 PM At first I was afraid I was petrified Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong And I grew strong And I learned how to get along
and so you're back
from outer space
I just walked in to find you here
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Whack and Roll
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Location: NE Texas | lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-20 4:10 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 4:06 PM At first I was afraid I was petrified Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong And I grew strong And I learned how to get along and so you're back from outer space I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
Kept trying' hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart
And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself, I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
And you see me, somebody new
I'm not that chained up little girl who's still in love with you
And so you felt like dropping in
And just expect me to be free
Now I'm saving all my lovin' for someone who's loving me
Edited by Herbie 2014-11-20 4:13 PM
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Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
Posts: 16390
Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | I should have changed that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
you'd be back to bother me
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Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
Posts: 16390
Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Did you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive (hey-hey)
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Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Man, we are never going to make it singing karyoke..... |
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Location: The edge of no where | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:52 PM Herbie - 2014-11-20 3:38 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
I'm in with Lulu and the others....You have to respect yourself before anyone else will respect you and you have to have a clear definition of what your expectations for a relationship are. When lines are crossed, we have to hold the line crosser accoutable. We teach people how to treat us and you are teaching them to treat you like crap. Stand tall, be proud of who you are!!!! Sounds like you have already overcome so much....be proud of that and use that as a tool and learning experience. Love yourself first and foremost and if a potential mate isn't matching up to the man you know you deserve....MOVE ON.....you were looking when you found him! LOL In all seriousness, you have to have expectations of what you want and when you don't get that, cut ties. Time to take control of your life and be proud to be a strong woman, a mother, and to know that a good man will be HONORED to be with you, not burdened. Food for thought......
That is the best advice you're going to get. BLOCK his number, his FB...everything! Good grief, he's a freakin loser. A real man never treats a woman like that. I.don't.care.how.mad.they.are!! THAT is NOT ACCEPTABLE! After kissing a few frogs, you learn things about men & boys.... They will treat you exactly how you allow them to. You've got to raise your self value in your own eyes before getting into another relationship. I'd be beyond furious at him for leaving that missing him would be the last thing on my mind. Keep all drama off of fb, if it showed you were in a relationship, just change it and roll on! There are some truly great guys out there, not immature jackasses that will never grow up. |
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Whack and Roll
Posts: 6342
Location: NE Texas | HEY, HEY-Y-Y-Y-Y-Y-Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Undercover Amish Mafia Member
Posts: 9992
Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-11-20 4:13 PM Go on now go walk out the door just turn around now 'cause you're not welcome anymore weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye Did you think I'd crumble Did you think I'd lay down and die Oh no, not I I will survive Oh as long as I know how to love I know I will stay alive I've got all my life to live I've got all my love to give and I'll survive I will survive (hey-hey)
It took all the strength I had
not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend
the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights
just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person
still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in
and just expect me to be free
and now I'm saving all my loving
for someone who's loving me
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Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
Posts: 16390
Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | I WILL SURVIVE!!!
YOU LOW DOWN, DIRTY, WOMAN LEAVING BUTTHEAD!! |
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Hungarian Midget Woman
Location: Midwest | Many a wonderful woman has fallen for a dbag.
Ive been there. Break ups are tough. Every day WILL get easier.
As as hard as it sounds, get up and take your daughter out to dinner. Go for a ride through a field.
You are strong and beautiful. Not only will you find someone else, he will be deserving of your time and affection.
Ask yourself if this is a man you'd like to see your daughter marry. I'd say no, and him stepping away is a good thing.
It feels like the hurt will never end, but it will.
Now go eat something and watch a funny movie.
You are strong. This won't lick you! |
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