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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | Being told "you have cancer" is the beginning of a process where a person has to go through a lot of stages that are remarkably consistent. It's a natural process that a person needs to go through, in my opinion. I can tell you this both from my personal experience of being told "You have leukemia", as well as being the messenger, hundreds, if not thousands of times. The first thing is shock and even denial. You just want to go off and process all this stuff. You want to run to be with that one person who means most to you and look to them for comfort and consolation. Then reality hits hard and that is usually accompanied by anger (Why me?). You talk to God and beg for a miracle. You bargain with Him and you promise to do this or that, if He will give you that cure or miracle. At this point, you begin to feel real sadness and mourning because the reality has sunk in. Acceptance and a mindset to get going with whatever needs to be done is the final stage. This is where you roll up your sleeves and go to work. Those of us who have been through this will identify with what Meg is going through. We all process things and cope a little differently, but these things do take place. If you are a person of faith, you begin to find serenity and real peace at some point. It's hard to say what Meg is going through at this point, but I am sure she is fighting and working her way through the process. In time, she will share with us. Right now what we are doing won't go unnoticed, and those prayers will be heard. The outpouring of love and support is enormous and very powerful! |
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  Living on the edge of common sense
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        Location: Carpenter, WY | It's funny Scott that the first time I get on BHW I read your post.
To fill in..I had a PET scan on Monday..head to toe and 50 minutes in that tube. I have 3 spots on my back and a mass in the right breast. I started radiation on the back on Tues and will go everyday for 3 weeks. They are trying to relieve some of the pain I have in my right leg and get me mobile again. I have a biopsy scheduled tomorrow on the breast and then a consult with the chemo Dr on Fri and more radiation. I'm at the overwhelmed stage right now but I can feel God's arms around me and know that I'm in good hands.
Please keep the prayers comming as I feel like I need all I can get
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  The Original Cyber Bartender
          Location: Washington | teehaha - 2014-03-05 3:50 PM
It's funny Scott that the first time I get on BHW I read your post.Â
To fill in..I had a PET scan on Monday..head to toe and 50 minutes in that tube. I have 3 spots on my back and a mass in the right breast. I started radiation on the back on Tues and will go everyday for 3 weeks. They are trying to relieve some of the pain I have in my right leg and get me mobile again. I have a biopsy scheduled tomorrow on the breast and then a consult with the chemo Dr on Fri and more radiation. I'm at the overwhelmed stage right now but I can feel God's arms around me and know that I'm in good hands.
Please keep the prayers comming as I feel like I need all I can get
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Meg, Thank you for the update.
Your allowed to be overwhelmed. Just remember we are friends, lean on us for support if nothing else.
Love and Hugs!!!!!!
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 Love Me Some Robert Redford
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     Location: WV | Glad to hear from you, will continue to keep you in my prayers. |
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  Living on the edge of common sense
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        Location: Carpenter, WY | fatchance - 2014-03-05 5:03 PM teehaha - 2014-03-05 3:50 PM It's funny Scott that the first time I get on BHW I read your post.
To fill in..I had a PET scan on Monday..head to toe and 50 minutes in that tube. I have 3 spots on my back and a mass in the right breast. I started radiation on the back on Tues and will go everyday for 3 weeks. They are trying to relieve some of the pain I have in my right leg and get me mobile again. I have a biopsy scheduled tomorrow on the breast and then a consult with the chemo Dr on Fri and more radiation. I'm at the overwhelmed stage right now but I can feel God's arms around me and know that I'm in good hands.
Please keep the prayers comming as I feel like I need all I can get
Meg, Thank you for the update. Your allowed to be overwhelmed. Just remember we are friends, lean on us for support if nothing else. Love and Hugs!!!!!!
I know you've got my back FC
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 A Somebody to Everybody
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              Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | teehaha - 2014-03-05 5:50 PM It's funny Scott that the first time I get on BHW I read your post.
To fill in..I had a PET scan on Monday..head to toe and 50 minutes in that tube. I have 3 spots on my back and a mass in the right breast. I started radiation on the back on Tues and will go everyday for 3 weeks. They are trying to relieve some of the pain I have in my right leg and get me mobile again. I have a biopsy scheduled tomorrow on the breast and then a consult with the chemo Dr on Fri and more radiation. I'm at the overwhelmed stage right now but I can feel God's arms around me and know that I'm in good hands.
Please keep the prayers comming as I feel like I need all I can get
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    Location: between here and there | Scott that was an excellent explanation for all of us. Thank you! We're all fighting right with you Meg!!!  |
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I agree... Thank you Scott And Meg Just know we love you and are here for your to lean on. I know you are overwhelmed right now |
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 I Prefer to Live in Fantasy Land
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | Continued prayers....        |
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Cold hands and Warm Heart
      Location: oklahoma | Meg, we love you! Take all the time that you need cuz we'll be here when you need us! Many prayers my friend. |
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 Lived to tell about it and will never do it again
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Ms. Dr. Phil
    Location: My happy place | Thank you so much for checking in and letting us know, we will all continue to pray. Also thanks to Scott for kind informative post. I still believe you are tougher than this, you just may not feel like it right now.
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 Hugs to You
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     Location: In The Land of Cotton | You are in my prayers daily. Scott's answer was great. My husband had cancer 25 years ago, and that is what he has described the experience to me as. Know that many, many people are lifting you up in prayer. Cling to your faith, your family, and you will be able to handle this bump in the road.   
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      Location: Keeping up with the numbers! | Continued prayers.  |
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 Can You Hear Me Now?
       Location: When you hit the middle of nowhere .. Keep driving | HotbearLVR - 2014-03-05 5:41 PM
Being told "you have cancer" is the beginning of a process where a person has to go through a lot of stages that are remarkably consistent. It's a natural process that a person needs to go through, in my opinion. I can tell you this both from my personal experience of being told "You have leukemia", as well as being the messenger, hundreds, if not thousands of times.  The first thing is shock and even denial.  You just want to go off and process all this stuff.  You want to run to be with that one person who means most to you and look to them for comfort and consolation.  Then reality hits hard and that is usually accompanied by anger (Why me?).  You talk to God and beg for a miracle.  You bargain with Him and you promise to do this or that, if He will give you that cure or miracle.  At this point, you begin to feel real sadness and mourning because the reality has sunk in.  Acceptance and a mindset to get going with whatever needs to be done is the final stage.  This is where you roll up your sleeves and go to work.  Those of us who have been through this will identify with what Meg is going through.  We all process things and cope a little differently, but these things do take place.  If you are a person of faith, you begin to find serenity and real peace at some point.  It's hard to say what Meg is going through at this point, but I am sure she is fighting and working her way through the process.  In time, she will share with us.  Right now what we are doing won't go unnoticed, and those prayers will be heard.  The outpouring of love and support is enormous and very powerful!
Couldn't agree more. Meg you have my hugs and prayers.
My father found out he had cancer on his lower back last spring. They surgically removed the tumors and gave him some radiation. He got a clean bill of health a few months later. Hearing he had cancer he said was harder then hearing he could never walk again. You just have to keep faith near you and fight.  |
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