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Location: NW MT | I am so very sorry! Sending hugs & prayers for you & your husband.   |
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Location: OH. IO | Checking on you this morning, a bad headache and nosebleed isnt realy normal under any condition so im praying you went to get checked outThinking of you both |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | Thank you again. jake16 Thank you, I fell asleep not long after I posted, probably a few minutes. I hadn't slept in a while. The nosebleeds have subsided. Still a small amount of blood but it's dried and only when I wipe or blow my nose. The headache has gotten considerably worse. I don't know what medications I can and cannot take so I haven't taken anything. I will be leaving shortly to see the doc. He is only a few miles from my house and Hubby is home to take me. |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | I just wanted to add that I wish every woman on here could be married to a man like my husband. Every woman deserves to be loved like this....... |
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Location: Kentucky | I am so sorry to hear this missroselee. |
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Location: Midwest | I will add a little more... I unexpectedly found out I was pregnant a couple years ago. I was on some dr's rx's that I had to stop cold turkey due to the fact they could hurt the baby... I consequently went through withdrawls and then lost the baby. My husband and I were heartbroken. It was right before Christmas, and I still dread the holiday season (I did before lol, but more so after this happened). We are still not planning on having kids, but it was so sad nonetheless. I really feel for you guys.
A friend of mine coincidentally miscarried Saturday as well. My heart is with you both.
After I had my miscarriage, I spoke with some other women I knew. Several had miscarriages and later went on to have healthy babies. One woman I spoke with had a large number, but she later had 3 or 4 healthy kids. Long story short, I know it hurts a lot right now, but it is by no means a reason to give up hope of later having a healthy child.
I just understand what you are going through and it hurts more than most realize if they haven't been there. |
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Location: The end of the Earth, SE AR | I am so terribly sorry.
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Damn Yankee
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | Waiting at the doc now.
This is was not a "planned " pregnancy. I was told by several doctors I had very little chance of even conceiving let alone going full term. So when we decided to go off BC, we didn't center our lives around it. We wanted to be ok with having a life with no children in case it never happened. And we knew that if it did it would be a true blessing. It took over a year. I was surprised to say the least, then when through all the emotions of being scared to death. The farther I got the more I stopped being afraid and started making plans and getting excited.
we found out November 9th we had a fifty fifty chance. This past Monday I think I knew but was hoping I wasn't right.........
Edited by missroselee 2013-12-02 8:10 AM
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Location: Riding Crackhead. | My heart breaks for you. I hope the Dr is able to help you this morning. You are so very lucky to have a wonderful supportive husband. |
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Location: Finally horseback again.... | Oh I am so very sorry gir!!/
God his his own timing I assure you.
Many prayers for you both.
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Location: Smack Dab in the Middle | You have all my prayers! It was a year ago (the Monday after Thanksgiving last year) that I went in for an 12 week ultra sound, only to find no heart beat...I had to have a D and C on that Friday. Hardest thing I've ever been through. It wasn't my first miscarriage, but the harder of the two. We had chosen the Thanksgiving holiday to tell our families about the baby, then to turn around a few days later and have to take it back...
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Sending you lots of prayers and cyber hugs. My SIL lost her baby earlier this year at 9 weeks. I have a cousin who suffered multiple miscarriages, including twins, due to endometriosis. She went on to have two healthy kiddos. I also lost one at 8 weeks this year. I am now pregnant and due in February.
What most people don't know is that an estimated 20% of pregnancies end by 12 weeks. It could be even higher. The problem is that most women don't talk about it. We tend to internalize the guilt and believe we did something wrong. The truth is that a lot of things can go wrong and this is God's way of saying, "Not yet."
Please allow yourself to grieve because it is the loss of a life and a precious being. And NEVER blame yourself for the could've, would've, should've... etc. It's not anything you did. |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace |
I don't think all the research and facts in the world could possibly eliminate the feelings of guilt and what ifs |
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Location: West Tennessee | Thinking of you, it's unbelievably hard but it doesn't mean God doesn't want you to be parents -- just that he has other plans at the moment.
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Location: Lost with the rest of the MINIONS! | So sorry to hear this. Many prayers for you and your hubby this morning. |
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Ima Fickle Fan
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Location: Texas | missroselee - 2013-12-02 9:06 AM
I don't think all the research and facts in the world could possibly eliminate the feelings of guilt and what ifs
Oh, I know. Facts are cold, especially in this situation. I just wanted to assure you that you aren't alone in this. I personally believe miscarriage is the secret tragedy in our society. No one wants to address it. So the women who suffer one must do so in silence and are made to feel guilty, as if they had control over it.
The truth is that it is a loss and you must grieve. Just know that you are not alone. The guilt is natural, but it's part of human nature to want to place blame. And as women, we first assume it was something we did. |
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| Many hugs and prayers to you and your husband. Hope you find out he cause of headaches and nosebleed. (((((())))))) |
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