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Location: Where I am happiest | You could pm Red Raider that posted on this thread beings though she is a good family law attorney and see if she knows a good divorce attorney in your town. |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 1:57 PM LRQHS when I do decide to date again you will be the 1st to know so you can screen dates for me LOL I garuntee you they will love and ride horses as much as I do or it's a deal breaker. Lol
Don't you worry, Strawfly. I got this covered :) Hang in there for now. |
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Location: Where I am happiest | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 1:57 PM LRQHS when I do decide to date again you will be the 1st to know so you can screen dates for me LOL I garuntee you they will love and ride horses as much as I do or it's a deal breaker. Lol Why not just ask LRQHS out? Ready made horsey date right there. lol
Came back to ad....when your ready of course. LOL
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| That would be long distance dating I live in miss and she lives in La, but I do have a few Cajun friends down in La. Lol |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Ohhhh, LRQHS has her a good man right now. But, you come on down here and I'll take you club hopping to try to find you a respectable woman. |
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| Lol, I may do that in the spring, I was just informed I have a date tonight taking my daughter to see a scary movie called Woman in Black |
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| OK let's get this over with. I have gotten several PM'S stating I need to save my marriage by all means nessecary. My marriage had been over a couple yrs when I caught her cheating. We agreed to stay together for our daughter. Until she graduates. So there is no saving what has been over for 2 yrs |
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Location: Where I am happiest | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 2:44 PM OK let's get this over with. I have gotten several PM'S stating I need to save my marriage by all means nessecary. My marriage had been over a couple yrs when I caught her cheating. We agreed to stay together for our daughter. Until she graduates. So there is no saving what has been over for 2 yrs
So sorry. There are just some things you cant fix or "Get over" and that is one of them. I thought I could when my ex cheated. I couldnt. It was always there and we were both miserable. My life now is SO much better and it makes going through all I did, worth it to get to where I am now. Life is to short to be miserable and some things just cant be fixed. |
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Location: relocated to Texas | strawfly special - 2015-01-03 8:52 AM So to keep attorneys from taking everything . It would be better to just sell and split everything 50/50 ? Is it possible to sit down with your wife and the two of you together decide on the division of your assets? Bottom line is you are both going to end up with so much. In a lot of states it's 50/50. If she wants to sell the house and you want to keep it, you can have it appraised and buy her out of her half. You don't need to pay attorneys to make these kind of decisions, if you can both agree to be reasonable. In my divorce, my ex husband and I hashed out our agreement before going to an attorney, then we went to an attorney to file the paper work. The divorce cost a total of $1500.00 and we had considerable assets. We both agreed we didn't want to lose those assets in attorney fees. If both parties can keep emotions and fighting out of it, you will both be better off financially. Good luck to you. Divorce is no fun even if the marriage has been dead for a couple of years. It will be better for your daughter if you can both be civil too. Hugs to you.
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Location: relocated to Texas | strawfly special - 2015-01-03 1:44 PM OK let's get this over with. I have gotten several PM'S stating I need to save my marriage by all means nessecary. My marriage had been over a couple yrs when I caught her cheating. We agreed to stay together for our daughter. Until she graduates. So there is no saving what has been over for 2 yrs
Some things can't be fixed. When a person cheats, a covenant is broken and even if the couple does not divorce, the betrayal is always there. Speaking from experience, even if you try to fix things, it never goes away.
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| We haven't been trying to fix it we have just been getting along for my daughter you know she could have told me instead of bringing her into it. I haven't asked my daughter any questions about it. I think it's better for her to be left out of the legal part of it |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Serious question, Strawfly. Do you chew? |
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| I dip at rodeos or ropings. But not on a date or at a movie or dinner LOL |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 3:47 PM I dip at rodeos or ropings. But not on a date or at a movie or dinner LOL
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Location: At the race track with Ah Dee Ohs | ThreeCorners - 2015-01-02 2:00 PM strawfly special - 2015-01-02 1:57 PM LRQHS when I do decide to date again you will be the 1st to know so you can screen dates for me LOL I garuntee you they will love and ride horses as much as I do or it's a deal breaker. Lol Why not just ask LRQHS out? Ready made horsey date right there. lol
Came back to ad....when your ready of course. LOL
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 3:51 PM ARE YOU ALREADY BUILDING MY PROFILE ????
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