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Location: At the race track with Ah Dee Ohs | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 3:51 PM ARE YOU ALREADY BUILDING MY PROFILE ????
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | total performance - 2015-01-02 3:53 PM ThreeCorners - 2015-01-02 2:00 PM strawfly special - 2015-01-02 1:57 PM LRQHS when I do decide to date again you will be the 1st to know so you can screen dates for me LOL I garuntee you they will love and ride horses as much as I do or it's a deal breaker. Lol Why not just ask LRQHS out? Ready made horsey date right there. lol
Came back to ad....when your ready of course. LOL
I got me a man....plus, he couldn't handle me  |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | How many fingers you got? |
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| LRQHS - 2015-01-02 3:59 PM How many fingers you got?
money or fingers...get your priorities straight! |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Whiteboy - 2015-01-02 4:01 PM LRQHS - 2015-01-02 3:59 PM How many fingers you got? money or fingers...get your priorities straight!
Is it too much for a girl to want both??? smh.... |
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Location: At the race track with Ah Dee Ohs | LRQHS - 2015-01-02 3:59 PM How many fingers you got?
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| All my fingers so far lol |
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Location: SE Louisiana | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 4:18 PM
All my fingers so far lol
That doesn't tell us how many..  |
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| Hey I have a single mother who I'm trying to set up with a nice guy! What kind of age range are we talking about here?!  |
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| 8 fingers and 2 thumbs lol |
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| Yeah I guess I came to the right place!! Who needs farmers only when you can go to BHW Lol |
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| In all seriousness...maybe your wife gave you that heads up so that you have a chance to pull your head out before it is too late. Sometimes it takes a threat to motivate someone. I don't know or really care if it is you or her, but if this was me, I'd maybe do a little self evaluation to see if there is something I could do to save that marriage. But I still love my wife, which is not the case with everyone i'm sure. |
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| So whiteboy if your wife cheated on you 2 yrs ago and y'all haven't BEEN together as husband and wife for 2 yrs been waiting until your daughter graduates and goes to college before getting a divorce, you would be trying to stay ? Even though she says she wants a divorce |
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Location: oklahoma | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 4:51 PM So whiteboy if your wife cheated on you 2 yrs ago and y'all haven't BEEN together as husband and wife for 2 yrs been waiting until your daughter graduates and goes to college before getting a divorce, you would be trying to stay ? Even though she says she wants a divorce
Have you talked to your wife at all about this since finding out? |
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| No I have not but my daughter and a good friend of ours was told by her not to say anything. So if I confront her she will know they told me. I don't want to cause any problems for them |
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| strawfly special - 2015-01-02 4:51 PM So whiteboy if your wife cheated on you 2 yrs ago and y'all haven't BEEN together as husband and wife for 2 yrs been waiting until your daughter graduates and goes to college before getting a divorce, you would be trying to stay ? Even though she says she wants a divorce
To be honest I would have kicked her to the curb 2 years ago, if that was her attitude. I can understand why parents try to stay together for the sake of the children but in most cases it isn't doing anybody any favors. So the question is why wait for her to file? |
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Location: Texas | I usually don't respond to these type of post but noticed in your initial post you requested suggestions for your daughter. A lot of the replies refer to what you should do with your marriage/divorce/wife. I haven't read all of the replies therefore this may have been mentioned. My advice is to not let your daughter see the emotional effect this has on you. Long story-short my husband moved in with his father when his parents got a divorce. My husband was 8 and was exposed to the emotional roller coaster his dad went through. Thus, making my husband lose a lot of respect for the female gender including his mother. I'm a firm believer in the saying how a man treats his mom is how he will treat his wife. It has taken my husband a long time to appreciate and respect women in general after what he witnessed what his mother "caused" his dad. Moral of the story, stay strong in front of your daughter. I know it will be easier said than done. Good luck and prayers! |
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Location: oklahoma | strawfly special - 2015-01-02 5:05 PM No I have not but my daughter and a good friend of ours was told by her not to say anything. So if I confront her she will know they told me. I don't want to cause any problems for them
Why not by pass who told what to whom and ask her to sit down with you, that you'd been thinking about a new year, new you? Move on. Idk, I couldn't live like that, was married to a cheater and to me, it does no one any favors to prolong the inevitable. Good luck to you. I'd go talk to an attorney and like someone said a few pages ago, don't sell yourself short. Be fair to yourself as well and not settle just to get it over with and not deal. Great advice on the parenting too, I never said anything bad about my sons dad cuz I figured sooner or later he'd be old enough to draw his own conclusions. |
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