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| wyoming barrel racer - 2014-05-21 11:09 AM After reading all this especially that she had the wellness check done on you, I would send a letter (from your lawyer) explaing that she has crossed the line and you are DONE! A nut case like this could mess around until she finds something and have that baby taken from you. Children are taken all the time from good parents over some BS charge while others are neglected and Child Services allow the truly needy cases to slide through the cracks.
Amen to this! And hugs to you - I'm sorry you are having to deal with her as she sounds like a real head case. |
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Location: ND--it snows, it floods, it snows, it floods | Did you have the current Daycare remove her from the approved list? If not have that done immediately as well. |
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Location: Texas | wyoming barrel racer - 2014-05-21 11:09 AM After reading all this especially that she had the wellness check done on you, I would send a letter (from your lawyer) explaing that she has crossed the line and you are DONE! A nut case like this could mess around until she finds something and have that baby taken from you. Children are taken all the time from good parents over some BS charge while others are neglected and Child Services allow the truly needy cases to slide through the cracks.
Absolutely agree! The fact that granny would do this indicates she's not a safe person to be near your child. She is a fruit loop.
And if she wants to fight dirty, you're the MOM. Your rights trump hers. Get proof of EVERYTHING and fight dirty back. And when I say fight dirty, I mean eliminate this woman from your daughter's life. This woman's son isn't supporting his daughter, why does she think she should have visitation with her granddaughter? Especially when it sounds like granny is trying to get your daughter removed from your home. |
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Location: Kansas | wyoming barrel racer - 2014-05-21 11:09 AM After reading all this especially that she had the wellness check done on you, I would send a letter (from your lawyer) explaing that she has crossed the line and you are DONE! A nut case like this could mess around until she finds something and have that baby taken from you. Children are taken all the time from good parents over some BS charge while others are neglected and Child Services allow the truly needy cases to slide through the cracks.
I'll speak with my attorney about the letter. She texted me again this morning, and I have yet to give her a response, but she "apologized" to me....but never once said anything about the wellness check. That burns my bottom she would even consider doing that, and she did it out of pure spite. Thankfully the deputy knew us and was extremely helpful with some questions.
I'm honestly afraid she will get the state involved |
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Location: Midwest | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-05-21 2:12 PM wyoming barrel racer - 2014-05-21 11:09 AM After reading all this especially that she had the wellness check done on you, I would send a letter (from your lawyer) explaing that she has crossed the line and you are DONE! A nut case like this could mess around until she finds something and have that baby taken from you. Children are taken all the time from good parents over some BS charge while others are neglected and Child Services allow the truly needy cases to slide through the cracks. I'll speak with my attorney about the letter. She texted me again this morning, and I have yet to give her a response, but she "apologized" to me....but never once said anything about the wellness check. That burns my bottom she would even consider doing that, and she did it out of pure spite. Thankfully the deputy knew us and was extremely helpful with some questions.
I'm honestly afraid she will get the state involved
Get your ducks in a row now.... Sorry you are having to deal with all of this. Sounds like you gave her a chance and she bit the hand that fed her.
I'd be getting her and the whole family out of my life asap....via a pfa or restraining order. Call the police and file reports for everything so you have evidence should you have go to court. |
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Location: When you hit the middle of nowhere .. Keep driving | I'd probably not be able to handle it as well as you are. I would lose my sh!t. Many hugs. File the order... and I would charge her too. You have proof that she wasn't supposed to pick the child up, you told her not too. If she's willing to involve cops and such you should be too. |
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 Not Afraid to Work
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| We deal with these kinda people all the time. Crazy MIL or Mothers when they are on the outs with someone. They call in check welfare basically using law enforcement to do the harassing for them. Make sure if this happens again, you tell the deputy/officer you do not want any information released to that party and that you are currently working with an attorney due to harassment issues.
Also file a claim if you havent already. You need that documentation. Shes shown her level of instability now, I wouldnt care if she begged on hands and knees, shes shown she isnt stable and should not be allowed unsupervised visits at best. |
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Location: Phoenix | I have no advice, but hang in there!!! Lots of great advice on here. Hugs!! |
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