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Location: Downsouth | Jazz's Girl - 2015-04-01 7:45 AM My husband and I are 25 years apart. We've been together 6 years. Married 2 this month. He has 3 kids from previous marriages. I don't want kids. SO... We had it worked out before we ever got married. He is amazing and my best friend. We are perfect for each other. No things are not always rainbows and flowers. We argue. And some days we would love to shoot each other but 100% of the time I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world. Ive dated guys my age and within 7 years of my age. Obviously they didn't work out. I never imagined I would be with someone this much older than me, but we compliment each other. He acts younger than his age and I feel a whole lot older than I am. I get the "oh he's your dad?" ALOT. I usually come back with Yea I call him Big Daddy. Or my personal favorite... No. He pays me by the hour. :) The only thing I would change.... I wish I was older so we could be together longer.
I dated an older man years ago. I was 36, he was 61. We dated a year. I'm still not sure how we packed so much fun in to 12 months. His daughter was one of my childhood friends. I used to exercise his racehorses when I was a teen. My mother remembered when I was a preteen I told her he was so sexy. When she asked if I knew what that meant, My reply... handsome. We had so much in common. He had traded his thorouhgbreds in for quarter horses, yay me, and we were present for every race. He treated me like a queen. Unlike some of the guys I had dated, he had a routine, for everything. Im extreme OCD, so it worked for me. He was more mature than guys my age, but I'm not sure he was more mature than me. He wanted to get married, and I wasnt ready. I had only been divorced a few years. His age had nothing to do with my decision. |