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Location: Kansas | block him from facebook, change your phone number......don't look back. | |
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| Nope he will not out grow it. He is a man will always be that way and probably get worse. He was most likely cheating you just were to good of a person to suspect it or try to catch him. | |
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Location: Texas | wa.cowgirl - 2015-04-27 4:29 PM I should have stopped talking to him. He keeps trying to make this all my fault... He's all in a tither because now that we separated, I'm friends with my ex again on Facebook. While we were together, it was a huge deal to him that I have NO contact with my ex. He would flip about an innocent phone call every few months. I was with the ex 8 years, had horses together, etc, so we would still talk occasionally. Is it really that weird to want to stay in touch with an ex??? It's not like I would ever take him back- I broke it off, and with good reason. He cheated on me, but at least he didn't make my life a living hell like this guy.
Now my mare finally foaled yesterday and she's trying to kill her baby pacing all over the pasture and not letting him nurse. Thank god neighbors were watching & called me, so I went home and sedated her and tied her up. Now back at work, worrying.
My best friend told me this morning that she's worried he could get violent. I sleep with a glock by the bed anyway. Im so stressed out. Why did/do I love this guy? I could see myself being single for a very very long time...
If y'all are separated, what you do, when you do it, who you talk to, is NONE of his business. Cut your ties and walk away. It will not get better and you will only be wasting more of your time.
You do NOT need a man, in order to be happy. Live your life, for you.
Everything will happen in God's time.....
Edited by EqualRanch 2015-04-27 6:44 PM
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Location: Phoenix | Haven't read any other responses but I was upfront with my boyfriend when things started getting serious . I made it clear that I would probably always love my horse more than I loved him (brutal, but let's be real!), and that I didn't want kids. He understands my horse thing and we both don't want kids. For me those are the 2 deal breakers. I can handle him not being horsey because he doesn't restrict me, and he does other outdoorsy activities.
Will he go to a rodeo with you? I mean, rodeo IS one big party but only if you participate. You also make lifelong friends in all parts of the region. | |
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Location: Deep South | wa.cowgirl - 2015-04-27 4:29 PM I should have stopped talking to him. He keeps trying to make this all my fault... He's all in a tither because now that we separated, I'm friends with my ex again on Facebook. While we were together, it was a huge deal to him that I have NO contact with my ex. He would flip about an innocent phone call every few months. I was with the ex 8 years, had horses together, etc, so we would still talk occasionally. Is it really that weird to want to stay in touch with an ex??? It's not like I would ever take him back- I broke it off, and with good reason. He cheated on me, but at least he didn't make my life a living hell like this guy.
Now my mare finally foaled yesterday and she's trying to kill her baby pacing all over the pasture and not letting him nurse. Thank god neighbors were watching & called me, so I went home and sedated her and tied her up. Now back at work, worrying.
My best friend told me this morning that she's worried he could get violent. I sleep with a glock by the bed anyway. Im so stressed out. Why did/do I love this guy? I could see myself being single for a very very long time...
I'm not defending the recent ex by any means, nor do I think it's an excuse for his behavior, but maybe something to consider for your next relationship... I would Definitely feel insecure if my hubby still talked to his ex! Even if it was only once every few months. Unless you have children with your ex, I see no reason to stay in touch with one. Ever. They are someone you once had a romantic relationship with, and I don't believe in ex's being able to be just friends after a breakup. Old feelings will emerge from at least one person if not both. | |
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Location: Texas | BamaCanChaser - 2015-04-28 8:26 AM wa.cowgirl - 2015-04-27 4:29 PM I should have stopped talking to him. He keeps trying to make this all my fault... He's all in a tither because now that we separated, I'm friends with my ex again on Facebook. While we were together, it was a huge deal to him that I have NO contact with my ex. He would flip about an innocent phone call every few months. I was with the ex 8 years, had horses together, etc, so we would still talk occasionally. Is it really that weird to want to stay in touch with an ex??? It's not like I would ever take him back- I broke it off, and with good reason. He cheated on me, but at least he didn't make my life a living hell like this guy.
Now my mare finally foaled yesterday and she's trying to kill her baby pacing all over the pasture and not letting him nurse. Thank god neighbors were watching & called me, so I went home and sedated her and tied her up. Now back at work, worrying.
My best friend told me this morning that she's worried he could get violent. I sleep with a glock by the bed anyway. Im so stressed out. Why did/do I love this guy? I could see myself being single for a very very long time... I'm not defending the recent ex by any means, nor do I think it's an excuse for his behavior, but maybe something to consider for your next relationship... I would Definitely feel insecure if my hubby still talked to his ex! Even if it was only once every few months. Unless you have children with your ex, I see no reason to stay in touch with one. Ever. They are someone you once had a romantic relationship with, and I don't believe in ex's being able to be just friends after a breakup. Old feelings will emerge from at least one person if not both.
My husband has an issue with me talking to HIS ex. lol
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| BamaCanChaser - 2015-04-29 5:26 AM
wa.cowgirl - 2015-04-27 4:29 PM I should have stopped talking to him. He keeps trying to make this all my fault... He's all in a tither because now that we separated, I'm friends with my ex again on Facebook. While we were together, it was a huge deal to him that I have NO contact with my ex. He would flip about an innocent phone call every few months. I was with the ex 8 years, had horses together, etc, so we would still talk occasionally. Is it really that weird to want to stay in touch with an ex??? It's not like I would ever take him back- I broke it off, and with good reason. He cheated on me, but at least he didn't make my life a living hell like this guy.
Now my mare finally foaled yesterday and she's trying to kill her baby pacing all over the pasture and not letting him nurse. Thank god neighbors were watching & called me, so I went home and sedated her and tied her up. Now back at work, worrying.
My best friend told me this morning that she's worried he could get violent. I sleep with a glock by the bed anyway. Im so stressed out. Why did/do I love this guy? I could see myself being single for a very very long time...
I'm not defending the recent ex by any means, nor do I think it's an excuse for his behavior, but maybe something to consider for your next relationship... I would Definitely feel insecure if my hubby still talked to his ex! Even if it was only once every few months. Unless you have children with your ex, I see no reason to stay in touch with one. Ever. They are someone you once had a romantic relationship with, and I don't believe in ex's being able to be just friends after a breakup. Old feelings will emerge from at least one person if not both.
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| You honestly need to cut all ties with this guy. Have your friend stay with you for a few nights make sure you always have the doors locked and DO NOT have a spare key. Also you comparing this ex to your other ex makes it sound like you would take him back because it would be easier and safer. (Not trying to be rude I did the same thing and it was a HUGE HUGE mistake on my part) Just cut all ties spend time with your horses and friends and enjoy YOUR life not worrying about what others may think of you. A great guy will come along when you least expect it | |
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