DashNDustem - 2017-10-28 11:17 AM


Thank you, this is the way I was feeling. I haven't shared a single thing except maybe two signs that I made for the guests (Seating sign, Unplugged wedding sign) and nothing else. And to be honest, I was NOT the only one who was upset.. because my maid of honor called me and told me about it, knowing that it was disrespectful. I'm not going to argue about what I think is wrong or right, because the fact that nobody has shared anything, she should have gotten the hint.

I'm really not going to argue but trust me when I say, I wasn't nagging her. She had very few things to do, and has 6 months to complete it. After she told me she wanted to go.. like 5 times after asking her if she was sure over the course of about 5 months, I started to push her within the last month and a half when she had not booked a room, or a plane ticket, or got her dress, or started on the bouquets because time was running out and was still giving me excuses. I'm not the controlling, crazy, bridezilla type. I'm not that girl that has had her wedding planned since she was 5.. I didn't even know what I wanted into things started to come together, and then I was like.. oh that sounds great, lets do that! All of my bridesmaids got to pick their own dresses, as long as it was the right color. I didn't care about the style. They got to pick their own hair styles, forwarded it to the hairstylist for them. Easy. She was the only one to give me problems, everyone else was right on track.

But anyway, thank you all for your thoughts. I think I'm done discussing this, I've let it go and I will enjoy my day. We will see where this friendship goes.

ETA: Also, I didn't go "behind her back" to purchase new flowers. She is in another state and 1000 miles away.. With her attitude, I didn't want to risk not getting them.